Stop. Relax and Listen..

Every once in a while you get tired and all you wanna do is lie on your bed while listening to sorrowful,gloomy, tragic love song and be sad for no apparent reason. Listening to sad songs should leave us feeling terrible, we have a tendency to actually kind of like them. I do this everytime. "hahahahah"

Accdg to study,"Even if listeners experience negative emotions when listening to sad music, sweet anticipation might still allow them to feel positive emotions, Even if the music itself is perceived as negative, and negative emotion is aroused in listeners in part, we have a tendency to experience ambivalent emotions by concurrently feeling pleased by virtue of our cognitive appraisal."

Listening to someone else sing about his or her sadness is a vicarious experience, so the sadness we feel isn't as threatening to our well-being. Sooooo...We can just sit back and enjoy someone else's heartbreak.

So here is a by-no-means-definitive playlist of sad tunes, a Playlist that I always like to listen, it is from the Dreamsound: I also add some random wretched sad songs. 

Enjoy being miserable! HA HA HA

1. I Can't Make You love Me -  Bonnie Raitt (Cheesy but Sad. A tormenting unrequited love?! Geez!) 
2. Have You Ever - Brandy (ouch!)
3. Cry Me A River - ( about someone who cheated? Sad, but hey It's JT! Just dance with it,you can't stay sad forever, right?)
4. Smile - Tamia ( yeah! pretend you're happy and it doesn't hurt!)
5. What hurts the most - Rascal Flatts ( Need I say more?)

Dreamsounds 1

Because Of You - Keith Martin

Home - Brian McKnight

Make Me Whole - Amel Larrieux

Don't Change - Musiq Soulchild

For You - Kenny Lattimore

I Won't Cry - Profyle

Negative Things - Selwyn

All My Love - Innervoices

I'll Wait Right Here - Jersey Ave

Something To See - Glenn Lewis

If You're Not The One (Acoustic) - Daniel Beddingfield

You First Believe - Hoku

I'm Missing You- Case

You're The One I Love - Jesse Powell

Dreamsounds 2

Dream of Me - Kirsten Dunst 

Without You - Charlie Wilson 

Visions of a Sunset – Shawn Stockman 

Don’t Wanna Try – Frankie J. 

Cry No More (I’ll Be There 4 U) – Kino Watson 

Doin’ Just Fine – Boyz II Men 

Color of Love – Sam Salter 

Whenever, Wherever, Whatever – Maxwell 

When Will It Be Me – Yasmeen 

Miss You – Aaliyah 

If I Was the One – Ruff Endz 

Lonely – Public Announcement 

Be the One – Tony Rich Project 

Stick Around – Azure 

Fly Away – Jaze

Dreamsounds 3

Lemar - What About Love?

Alicia Keys - If I Ain't Got You (Acoustic)

John Legend - Ordinary People

Boyz II Men - Oh Well

Usher - Separated

Legaci - Ready For Love

Brownflava - Come Back

Heather Headley - I Wish I Wasn't

Joe - Another Used To Be

Ginuwine - Differences

 Kevon Edmonds - A Girl Like You

3LW - Curious

Verse - Let's Make Love

6th Day - 6th Day Medley

Donell Jones - Come Back

Shanice - Fall For You

Dreamsounds 4

1. Close To Heaven-Color Me Badd

 2. Everytime-Tatyana Ali

3. For You-Kenny Lattimore

4. Hey Blue-Tony Rich Project

5. I Cry Real Real Tears-Eternal

6. I Don’t Wanna Be Lonely-Az Yet

7. If I Knew-Fra Lippo Lippi

8. Missing You-Brandy and Tamia

9. Moonlight Over Paris-Peter Mayer

10. Never Lie-Immature

11. On Bended Knee- Boyz II Men

12. Tender Love-Amyth

13. The One I Gave My Heart To-Aaliyah

14. You Were There-Babyface 

Dreamsounds 5

1. Beautiful Girl-Kenny Lattimore

2. For Your Love-Tevin Campbell

3. Heaven-Nu Flavor

4. I Care About You-Milestone

5. I’ll remember-Madonna

6. Lately-KC and Jojo

7. Miss You-Aaliyah

8. Missing You-Tony Rich Project

9. Moonlight Over Paris-Vanessa Williams

10. Not Ready For Goodbye-All-4-One

11. Sitting Here-Pure Harmony

12. Sorry Song-Brian McKnight

13. The Arms Of The One Who Loves You-Xscape

14. Think Of Aaliyah-Boyz II Men

15. When I See You Smile-Uncle Sam

16. Wonderful Tonight-Serenade

Dreamsounds 6

1. All Out Of Love- Jagged Edge

2. Angel of Mine-Eternal

3. Fall Again-Glenn Lewis

4. For Your Love-Charlie Wilson

5. I’d Rather-Luther Vandross

6. I’ll Be Over You-The Sundays

7. I’ll Be There For You-Kino Watson

8. Loveable-Kenny Lattimore

9. Maybe I Deserve-Tank

10. Most Beautiful Girl-Nu Flavor

11. Never Find Someone Like You-Keith Martin

12. Sex Is On My Mind-Blulight

13. Someone To Live-Jon B and Babyface

14. Still Be Loving You-Damage

15. These Arms-All-4-One

16. Two Occasions-Deele

17. Understanding-Xscape

Dreamsounds 7

Baby I'm Yours-Shai

Come Breath Me-1728

Constantly-Vanessa Williams

Dance With My Father-Luther Vandross

Don't Wanna Try-Frankie J.

Endlessly-B44

Falling-Keahiwai

I Wish I Wasn't-Heather Headley

I Won't Cry-Profyle

I'll Give My Love To You-Voices of Theory

Knocks Me Off My Feet-Donell Jones

Love Will Be Waiting-Kevon Edmonds

Moonlight Over Paris-Paolo Santos

Officially Missing You-Tamia

Purest of Pain-Son By Four

So Wonderful-Devotion

Dreamsounds 8

Around You-Tribe of Levi

Brokenhearted-Boyz II Men and Brandy

Can You Stand In The Rain-New Edition

How Did We End Up Here-B44

If I Were You-Tamia

I'll Be Waiting-Voices of Theory

Just To Be Close To You-Trey Lorenz

My Kind OF Girl-Brian McKnight

Need You-Devotion

On My Own-Whitney Houston

Overjoyed-Profyle

Saying I Love You-Ruff Endz

Superman-Shawn Desman

The Sweetest Days-Vanessa Wiliams

Till My Heartaches End-Arnee

oxox